One of the hardest lessons I've been learning is that I need to "choose" what I want to be and then do it. When the responsibility fades a bit after hectic decades, it can feel pretty empty. Do you want to become really awesome at DnD, woodcrafting, body building, church service, etc?

Pick 1 or 2 and double down. Choose what you want to become and give yourself a goal rather than inheriting one.